Success in life & love isn't always easy, but it doesn't have to be hard either. Stop trying to be all things to all people, and focus instead on the qualities that make YOU different and unique. In addition to making your Love life better, you'll have more fun doing it as well. But how do you uncover your BEST dating & relationship qualities? Start with these 4 simple steps:
- Go with what's worked: being self-aware is a first and essential step to future dating & relationship success. Step 1 - reflect on those times when you've had success (a great date, a fulfilling relationship, an awesome weekend with someone special, etc.), and identify what you did that made it successful. Step 2 - repeat.
- Change it up: on the other side, reflect on those occasions where things haven't gone well, and identify why things went wrong. Were you in a bad mood? Were you not fully engaged in the moment? Were you not making an effort? Successful relationships don't come naturally, they come to those that are committed to making them work. Sometimes, that means changing you too.
- Watch for signs of excitement: sometimes the best bet is not to overthink it - listen to your body and your mind. When you're engaging with someone or doing something that you're really good at, you'll likely feel a rush of excitement. This energy can make an ordinary moment feel extraordinary - for you, and your partner.
- Communication: it's been said 'behind every people problem is a communication problem', and this applies to dating & relationships too. Commit to continuously improving your communication skills, and your Love life will prosper too!