At this time of remembrance, here are 10 dating tips to never forget in your quest for a meaningful relationship:
- Be yourself: the first step in connecting with someone is showing the truest version of yourself.
- Take the pressure off: dating is the one activity where relaxation, and not pressure, will yield better results.
- Leave the checklist at home: a key element of relaxing is not worrying about your dating checklist on a first date. Remember, a first date is primarily a first step towards a second or third date, which is a much better time to talk about deeper issues.
- Smile: a simple smile is one of the most powerful ways to generate interest and attraction in a partner. Everyone wants to be with someone who is positive.
- Be considerate: treat your date, and all those around you, with genuine respect and consideration. It is in fact these attributes which lead to a more lasting connection than pure physical chemistry alone.
- Don't judge a book by its cover: although initial chemistry is one element of compatibility, remember that true chemistry doesn't always show itself on a first date. In fact, chemistry that develops slowly and over time can be the kind that lasts forever.
- Listen actively: talking about yourself all night is no fun, particularly for the other person. Be interested in them and it will most likely be reciprocated.
- Rome was not built on one date: unless you are absolutely sure that you have no connection with someone on a first date, always aim to meet someone for a second date which are typically less pressure and more fun.
- Don't burn bridges: even if you don't connect romantically with someone, be considerate and respectful. Remember, if you leave a positive impression your date may know someone who's perfect for you.
- Never lose hope: in dating and in life, success goes to those who persist. Be positive and look at dating as a chance to meet new people; don't worry too much about chemistry and other things that you can't control.